January 29, 2012

Jan 30.

I'm remembering my Dad today.

He was never one for big birthday events. Last year's 60th bash was out of the ordinary, allowing his girls to throw a party to toast his life with family & friends. 

But in years gone past he wasn't one for a lot of attention or fuss in the form of birthday praise. I really liked that about him. Perhaps our early hand-made gifts taught him to lower his standards? A maroon & blue knitted glasses case will do that...

While I won't break with tradition & pour out a heap of glowing remarks about my precious dad on his birthday - he would shake his head & joke that nobody want's to read that! - I do want to mark the significance of today & the person I'm missing so very much.


Wayman was a unique personality that drew our family together & formed a unity that has continued-on in his absence... Dad's intense devotion to us girls, passionate enthusiasm for our husband's different spirits, & great love for mum was a treasured gift. And all founded on his salvation in Jesus - not as an after thought, but as an anchor for his soul.

Today I am remembering & missing so many things about Dad. Here I will remember just one to mark the day - he loved to know other people's stories. When I sit down with a stranger & ask about their lives I remember my dad taught me that. I can vividly picture him leaning-in to ask a question & listen with genuine interest & a desire to learn. He valued people.


I am deeply thankful for the Dad God gave me.

xx

5 comments:

Suse Rockwell said...

Beautiful Cass. Am praying for you.

Savannah O'Gwynn said...

What a beautiful post, Cassie! I just love the picture of you and your dad! Many blessings--praying for you:) <3

Shano said...

We have been so blessed, what an amazing Dad he was. I feel so grateful to have had him in our lives and for the legacy he has left behind. Thank you for your blog. Much love Steph

Kaye said...

thanks for sharing this Cass - we have been remembering your Dad too - this week is such a special one in his and Ruth's life. We treasure our memories of him too, and you have captured a vivid picture of him in this blog.
Love A Kaye and U Rog xx

Anonymous said...

Cassie your dad was truly one in a million. I will always treasure our time with him and the rest of your amazing clan on the Murray river. I hope I can raise my boys to be just like him. Helen xxx